We have all, at some point or the other, asked our parents, who their favorite child is and the unanimous answer would be "all my children are equal to me". And that's a big fat lie!
Every parent has a favourite child. They don't love their children equally. That's the universal truth. The reasons may vary, but it would be quite evident from their actions. But, they would gaslight you. They'd tell you that you are being irrational.
From being partial with even trivial things, you can see through it. But, they will never agree. It's understable, they don't want to hurt you, but c'mon! Why do they justify it though?
My parents are the same too. They even would lie that they like me more, but I see it everyday, right in front of my eyes, how partial they are with my sibling, and how they justify their acts even when both of us do the exact same mistake!
But then, sometimes, you kinda ignore and let it go. Because the more you talk about it, "you are overthinking". So, you silently take it all. And love your parents regardless. Because aren't we all conditioned to love them no matter what?
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