I guess what I'm gonna share is something every gal would experience some day or the other. They say, marriage is this,marriage is dat.. But ever wondered what a gal would be feeling wen u go n say this to her?
I consider myself as an immature, "still a kid" kinda gal, but my age as my "well wishers" say, is pretty matured enough to get married. F**k you! x-( Is there some rule that every individual should get married? Who the F introduced this bull crap thing on Earth? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...!!Would life be a hell if u don't get married? I suppose its the other way round!
You grow up at some place you call your "home", you live with people whom u call your "parents", they give u everything you want, you get such a good life no matter how hard its for your parents. You have things which are just urs, your own room, bathroom, loo, dress, handkerchief, comb and what not.
And then, you grow up... You become aged enough to get married. You go to some other place, which actually is your home. Everything you had and you owned were not urs, were more like an illusion. You hardly get to see the people with whom u lived, whom u loved more than anything.
You gotta live with some guy whom you call your husband. You share everything with him. And now, you dont own a room, u share it with someone else.Earlier, you were a princess, n now, you are not less than a maid! He from Prince, becomes the King..! Everything changes in a matter of time. You r no longer who you used to be!!!
And this guy, would never give you all the love, care and comfort you used to get. For him, you are just a pain in the ass...!!! You gotta change n tune yourself to be the one he wants you to be.. And he, would never change!
WTF Man..! I mean, WTF!! Noooo... Just leave me alone, n let me enjoy being single than being someone's toy!
I consider myself as an immature, "still a kid" kinda gal, but my age as my "well wishers" say, is pretty matured enough to get married. F**k you! x-( Is there some rule that every individual should get married? Who the F introduced this bull crap thing on Earth? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...!!Would life be a hell if u don't get married? I suppose its the other way round!
You grow up at some place you call your "home", you live with people whom u call your "parents", they give u everything you want, you get such a good life no matter how hard its for your parents. You have things which are just urs, your own room, bathroom, loo, dress, handkerchief, comb and what not.
And then, you grow up... You become aged enough to get married. You go to some other place, which actually is your home. Everything you had and you owned were not urs, were more like an illusion. You hardly get to see the people with whom u lived, whom u loved more than anything.
You gotta live with some guy whom you call your husband. You share everything with him. And now, you dont own a room, u share it with someone else.Earlier, you were a princess, n now, you are not less than a maid! He from Prince, becomes the King..! Everything changes in a matter of time. You r no longer who you used to be!!!
And this guy, would never give you all the love, care and comfort you used to get. For him, you are just a pain in the ass...!!! You gotta change n tune yourself to be the one he wants you to be.. And he, would never change!
WTF Man..! I mean, WTF!! Noooo... Just leave me alone, n let me enjoy being single than being someone's toy!
I dunno that there are GIRLS who thinks like guys... ahem...or like me;)
ReplyDeleteWell, is this how guys think too? in that case, i better stay single ! two ppl demandin the same huh... cant even imagine :/
ReplyDeleteNah! don't generalize guys! this is juz an aromatic guy's POV(not gay).But hey c'mmon! don't be so selfish...:P life is the mixture of happiness n sorrows :)life is lyk a movie(Karan Johar)What's a love story without first seeing the characters before they fall in love? We pay for our ticket to see them actually FALL IN LOVE. To see them change. To see the process of the characters moving from lonely isolation to finding each other, falling for each other, screwing it all up, breaking up, realizing they are meant for each other, getting back together, blah blah blah. We watch to SEE these changes, these moments in time that are full of energy and drama. If a movie started with 2 people madly and happily in love, and we watched two hours of them simply going on romantic picnics, having dinner with their loving welcoming families, dancing under the stars, and then the movie ends and they're still just in love... well, come on! Could there possibly BE a more boring movie? That movie would put all but the most diehard romantics to sleep...;)so don't be such a pessimist :D
ReplyDeleteaint being a pessimist... life's not a KJo movie.. its way better dan that :D if it was so, i'd rather end up my life than falling in love.. oh doood.. u just reminded me of Kjo n ihs movies :(
ReplyDeleteerr...sorry:(
ReplyDeletehaha lol :P well neva mind.. i hate 'em :D
ReplyDeleteanyways.. there's no perfect life nor a perfect love story.. but then... there are certain things that u expect from ur partner... n if its unrequited then thats one tragedy! hmmmmmph!
Looking for a dog? :/
ReplyDeletexactly what i wanna ask these guys... are u lookin for a partner or a dog? >:(
ReplyDeleteyour life, your wish..))
ReplyDeletewell... enjoyed reading your blog, but entirely diff from ma concept. All have their own reasons. For me I always enjoyed a company of boy in my life. I was very comfortable with my boyfriend and later with ma hubby. I am not dependent but I would like to share things with him.. In my life I have many things which I can't open up with my parents and only to my b.f. No one specially ma parents teach me that after marriage what ever was mine will not be from after that. Now I am married but still I own the ownership to my room, my stuffs and all. Nothing matters or bothers me If I have to share it with someone whom I love and close to me. Now I enjoy my role as a wife and a mother. I feel myself as a proud women when I take care of my baby and hubby and in return I get unconditional love.
ReplyDeletewhat if sme one can change ur world?..if he who makes u a queen,give u a house instead of a room and share u love instead of hatred?!
ReplyDeletehmmmmm.... easy to say, but hard to find :)
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