Friday, November 15, 2013

Love failures...

We grew up hearing this term 'Love Failure' both in movies and in real life, with pun intended and sometimes otherwise. When someone grows a beard, or keeps a stubble, drinks more than usual, stays off grid or does not plan to date someone or get married, we hear this phrase floating around. I've asked people, have also been bombarded with the same question at various instances. 'Love failure' happens one breaks up with his/her girlfriend/boyfriend, never gets to be with the one they love. But now, I wonder why we call it 'love failure'.

Does love actually fail? NO! Love never fails. It's people who fail - to express their feelings; to understand; to hold on to the one they love; to let their love go; to love unconditionally; to stop expecting more than what the other could ever give; and finally, to fall for the wrong one. 

 Love is such an unexplainable feeling that can happen to anyone, anytime, anywhere. To keep it live is our responsibility. There's no fake love, its people who fake; love is true, ALWAYS. We fail at making choices and decisions, so why blaming it on love? :-)

Love never fails. People do, miserably, dispiritedly and  terribly. So call it a break up or something of your choice, but never 'love failure'!

And yes, people don't get married, or stay single, or grow beard or get drunk for various other reasons. Like, for instance, a beard/stubble is the hottest thing men can ever have, and getting drunk makes one feel lighter ! 

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