I was grown up watching movies and reading stories where boys & gals, men & women fall in love with each other, get married and live happily ever after. Where the girl might be extremely pretty, amazingly gorgeous and sometimes too hot to handle. And the guy, might be fat/short/dark/handicapped or sometimes all of them. He would still be so charming for the smokin' hot gal to fall for. I used to fancy all these when a kid and used to love the fact that gals not always fancy only men with six packs or who are super hot. Now I wonder why this has to happen. Why don't men fell for women who are dark or not even close to pretty and I've been seeking answers for this behavior!
Does that mean ONLY women follow 'beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder' format and men's eyes only see external beauty? Or is it that women who are not beautiful shouldn't be loved at all? Most of the male actors when looked closely wouldn't even have enough physical strength to fight with a street dog, but they would be fighting with 20 villains who would be double his height and weight, save the girl and walk off like nothing happened. And that super hot chick would be impressed and fancying him thereafter. She would be seen stalking him, begging him to fall in love and finally gets the guy! What bullshit!
I am not saying there are no female actors who are not 'pretty' by looks, but aren't they used only for humor? There are exceptions, like an 'Ugly Betty' but she's UGLY, or a Jassie who was accepted by her love when she had a complete make over.... screw you! I don't understand their logic at all. If for men looking physically endearing is not important, then why is it important when it comes to the female counterpart? Agree trends are being changing, everyone wants six packed super hot men now, but aren't the other category still ruling the charts? Why haven't anyone ever tried making a handsome guy fall for a not-so-good-looking girl not out of sympathy but out of true love at least once?
Another thing is about women proposing men. There would be this cute girl who the male lead loves, and a super hot woman who wants the same guy, who tries to woo him because she is madly in love with him, but she gets rejected only because he is in love with another girl. At the same time, even if the girl is in love with another guy, when the hero acts crazy for her, she falls for him, every single time. Why are these film makers so much interested in showing that women are bitches, ALWAYS?
Why do people always give importance to external beauty but applicable only for women? If women are to be beautiful and men are not be macho, then why aren't all the male actors macho men? I WANT ANSWERS.
All these irk me and deeply and unfortunately this trend is been followed in real life too. I wish people start accepting the fact that external beauty is not important. Someone please stop this nonsense and bring to light that looks doesn't matter, be it for a man or a woman. Or atleast correct me if I am wrong.
Does that mean ONLY women follow 'beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder' format and men's eyes only see external beauty? Or is it that women who are not beautiful shouldn't be loved at all? Most of the male actors when looked closely wouldn't even have enough physical strength to fight with a street dog, but they would be fighting with 20 villains who would be double his height and weight, save the girl and walk off like nothing happened. And that super hot chick would be impressed and fancying him thereafter. She would be seen stalking him, begging him to fall in love and finally gets the guy! What bullshit!
I am not saying there are no female actors who are not 'pretty' by looks, but aren't they used only for humor? There are exceptions, like an 'Ugly Betty' but she's UGLY, or a Jassie who was accepted by her love when she had a complete make over.... screw you! I don't understand their logic at all. If for men looking physically endearing is not important, then why is it important when it comes to the female counterpart? Agree trends are being changing, everyone wants six packed super hot men now, but aren't the other category still ruling the charts? Why haven't anyone ever tried making a handsome guy fall for a not-so-good-looking girl not out of sympathy but out of true love at least once?
Another thing is about women proposing men. There would be this cute girl who the male lead loves, and a super hot woman who wants the same guy, who tries to woo him because she is madly in love with him, but she gets rejected only because he is in love with another girl. At the same time, even if the girl is in love with another guy, when the hero acts crazy for her, she falls for him, every single time. Why are these film makers so much interested in showing that women are bitches, ALWAYS?
Why do people always give importance to external beauty but applicable only for women? If women are to be beautiful and men are not be macho, then why aren't all the male actors macho men? I WANT ANSWERS.
All these irk me and deeply and unfortunately this trend is been followed in real life too. I wish people start accepting the fact that external beauty is not important. Someone please stop this nonsense and bring to light that looks doesn't matter, be it for a man or a woman. Or atleast correct me if I am wrong.
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