How would it feel when something which was always yours - the thing you've been pampering and considering your own for ages, the thing you would never wanna share, not even with your best buddy... that one thing you'd give your life for.... suddenly goes stolen. Like, you would never find it ever! THAT feeling is quite unexplainable !! Well, lil close to it is what I feel when AAAAALLLLLLL my friends get married! No, really! I might sound quite lame here, but the truth has always been bitter!
No matter how much we claim that friendship's not gonna change when someone else come into your life, there's no intruding and all that, it always come to one thing - close to THE END. Everything becomes so stereotypical. Your friend finds a guy or a gal, they start dating, then get married, you would be happy for them, but then, you know, you are slowly losing them.
Things get worse if the friend is from the opposite gender and when you are single. :/ You'd been spending half of your life with this one person, and suddenly he gets a partner to hang out with, to visit your favorite restaurants, his phone has a new number to dial on, his bike now has a new pillion passenger... You'd be there as his friend for life, but everything would have changed. You know they have moved on, 'coz they have a life to deal with, you know everything, but still that 'missing him' will remain, probably until you find a person, your love.... This might be in simple words can be called as 'being selfish', but then I think this is quite a common issue mostly every friend would be facing!
Weddings, marriages and all that do ruin quite a lot good relations... At the age of 26, and still being single, I wonder what all is in store! :/
No matter how much we claim that friendship's not gonna change when someone else come into your life, there's no intruding and all that, it always come to one thing - close to THE END. Everything becomes so stereotypical. Your friend finds a guy or a gal, they start dating, then get married, you would be happy for them, but then, you know, you are slowly losing them.
Things get worse if the friend is from the opposite gender and when you are single. :/ You'd been spending half of your life with this one person, and suddenly he gets a partner to hang out with, to visit your favorite restaurants, his phone has a new number to dial on, his bike now has a new pillion passenger... You'd be there as his friend for life, but everything would have changed. You know they have moved on, 'coz they have a life to deal with, you know everything, but still that 'missing him' will remain, probably until you find a person, your love.... This might be in simple words can be called as 'being selfish', but then I think this is quite a common issue mostly every friend would be facing!
Weddings, marriages and all that do ruin quite a lot good relations... At the age of 26, and still being single, I wonder what all is in store! :/
There is someone out there who deserves you :) I'm sure your gonna enjoy living with him and have a fabulous life ahead!
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