FYI dear North, East, West & South Indians...

I was amazed when a Mumbaikar asked me while i was checking FBvia phone, "Do South Indians use FaceBook and stuffs like that?"

Errr.... whaat? Are you kidding me? Why wouldnt we? 

Now, u guys think your place is USA n ours is Jamaica? hello? We all belong to a place called India.... And we are all Indians...

But still, if u think u r better... well, You might be better, but there are few things you forget often...

• South India as a whole is not comprised of villages, and we are not villagers !!
• We prefer to be bound in our Indian culture, where you are more keen about what's happening in the West..
• We prefer wearing Salwars, Sarees, Dhothis and lungis, whereas u prefer showing off :) 
• Guess you are unaware of the fact that B'lore, hyderabad and Kochi is a part of South India..
• We might appear as Behanjis to you as we aremore comfy wearing salwars, but trust me on this looks can be deceptive..
• We prefer "naadan kallu" over Whisky, Brandy or Vodka ;)
• We know English, we are quite inhibited to talk, we are bothered about grammar while u guys doesnt even bother about what you are talking..
• APJ Abdul Kalam is a South Indian :)
• Even Sridevi, Dream girl Hema Malini, Prabhu Deva,Rajni kanth And Maestro A.R.Rahman are South Indians :)
• Most of the Bollywood Movies are either remade or inspired from South Indian movies...
• We love Aamir Khan just like we love Rajnikanth or Mammootty...
• We never differentiate you as Bengali or a Mumbaikar but as an Indian, just like us...

Now, if i talk about Kerala alone...

• We, malayalees to be precise, brush our teeth, bath and wash our clothes DAILY...
• You can find us anywhere in this Globe... Gulf country has now become a part of Kerala ;) LOL
• If u ask a British guy or an American where Mumbai is, he might say "I dont know", but he definitely knows KERALA..
• Where do u think u get those coconuts from? :)

I can go on with the list, but then.. all i wanna say is that.. forget it guys.. we are all Indians... We belong to India - the land of different culture, languages, customs and rituals... hence, there would be difference in the way u r n the way i am...Lets be proud of being an Indian than pointing out the  flaws in our neighbour.. So lets be INdians on first place than being Northies or Southies or whatever...

JAI HIND!

A humble request from a fellow human being!

Why should we have "orphanages" across the country? Why should there be ORPHANS  on first place? Orphanages should all be demolished.. !!! But for that, it should be ensured that no one remains as an orphan...

Who is an orphan? 

- Some one who doesnt have PARENTS.

Who is a parent?

- One who gives birth to a child... 

So how are orphans created? Are they someone you get when you dig the ground for something or you find in the ocean when you go for sail? NO! They are created just like how we all are, where a biological process is involved - you know what i'm talknig about!! The only difference is that we know who is behind our birth n they dont! 

Why is this happening? We are in an era where the technology has advanced so much providing solutions for each and everything our grandparents had no clue about. It also has  provided wide range of protective measures to have a safe sexual life. 

Unprotected sex is not just a reason behind the increase in the number of orphans... But here, am focusing on that particular point which i think is predominant...

The world has advanced so much that the "married" couples these days prefer not to have children n they clearly know how it is attained. No matter  how much the world has advanced, there is no decrease in the count of  orphans.. Why is it so? If  you are so desperate to  have sex, who is stopping you? But why cant u use  the protective measures so that you are dont give birth to  a "basterd" or choose abortion which indeed makes you a murderer.

Giving birth is one of the best things ever. If you dont know the value, go ask infertile couple what it means to them. they are dying to have a kid and you are killing or dumping them ! wah!! Poverty is one major reason, but then, condoms comes in a very low rate, dont they? Or i'd suggest the Govt to provide the people below poverty line with free condoms just like how they provide rice and other stuffs!

Advertisements and campaigns on the necessity to use "condoms" are done for the past so many years. Still, people find it a difficult task to buy one condom!! Listen, "condom" or "sex" is NOT bad words. Both are necessary things infact. Its gonna happen with each  one of us some day or the other, with the opposite sex n in some with the same sex.i know there will be atleast one person questioning me sayin "hey, what have u written? how can u write something about sex or condom, being a gal?" 

Huh? Sorry what? So, gals should nt know or talk about sex? wow!!  Now that leads me to ask a few questions to you, but that would deviate me from the topic i've been discussing about!

So my whole point is that, if you badly wanna have sex, have it, but a safe one. Am not here  to endorse some condom company or their products, but thinking about the fact that when we have two people in our lives called father and mother who give us everything we ask for, they, orphans as we call them, who do have parents like u and me do , but have no clue who they are, gets ruined at some effing place, gets ill treated, raped, becoming criminals, terrorists, murderers just because they are ORPHANS !!

There are hell lot of orphanages across, but we dunno whats exactly happening inside - whether they are treatedwell or not. We dont know !!! IF they are getting ill treated, is that what they really deserve?  They aresuffering where you are the root cause. They are getting punished for the mistake you did... Same with abortion. The baby is getting killed for something u did.. They dont deserve to b killed or dumped. They deserve a better place in the world, to live, to get a better live, to be something... Some might get adopted, but what about the rest?

If u ask me how this problem can be solved, i'd say, its upto each one of us to decide. May be the one small mistake we do would destroy someone else's life. So let's better be cautious n think twice before getting involved in such things, as, in most cases,  if we trace out an orphan's parent, it would be some one like us - well educated, from a well off family but dumb!! 

What can we do? We cannot go around, ask people "hey, are you plannig t odo this? if yes, dont.. these are the after effects" ... No! Being a part of an NGo can hel pthem some way, but that doent give the PARENTS! So,all we can do is, plege ourselves that we'll not be one who'd give birth to an orphan, nor will we be a part of an abortion....

- A humble request from a fellow human being!